What Others Are Saying
"The pen isn't just mightier than the sword. The pen, guided by a human hand and led with a heartfelt intent, is mightier today than ever. In an increasingly automated, Al-driven world, people are dying to hear from others. And that makes the old school practice of handwritten notes the new secret weapon in building relationships. Read Rod's book. Soak up his thoughts. Then, do what your mother told you to do and start writing handwritten notes. It will change your relationships for good."
WILLIAM VANDERBLOEMEN
Founder and CEO | Vanderbloemen Search Group
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"Rod Gray has crafted a unique and remarkable resource in INK, illuminating the transformative "power of the pen" amidst the noise of our digital landscape. In an age dominated by a barrage of texts, emails, and social media posts, Rod encourages readers to revisit the lost art of handwritten correspondence—letters, notes, and greeting cards that nurture genuine human connection."
Sarah R. Coates, LCMHC
Founder & President
One-Eighty Counseling, P.A.
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"Rod structures the story of the 'why' we need the handwritten note in a style that invites his readers to be inspired through history and through emotional examples. This book will help you get back to the basics."
Trip Durham
2D Consulting, LLC
NACMA Past President"
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"I have considered Rod a friend and colleague for the better part of 30 years and have both witnessed—and personally experienced—his relentless habit of expressing gratitude through handwritten notes. This man has built countless successful businesses and cultivated a wide circle of incredible friends simply because he takes the time to appreciate each person he encounters—and thoughtfully lets them know it. Rod’s example and advice have also helped me build my own business through the power of handwritten thank-you notes. He truly practices what he preaches, and anyone would do well to adopt the habits presented in this book to positively impact the lives of others."
Ashley Quinn RCA,SPS
REALTOR® | PREMIER AGENTS NETWORK
TOP 100 TRIANGLE PRODUCERS 2024, 2025
$150+ MILLION INDIVIDUAL PRODUCER
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"There is just something so powerful about personal connection. In a digital world we lose that and so many things become generic rather than personal and meaningful. Rod Gray’s new book will show you the power of a personal note or message that goes beyond the digital world and straight to the heart of the individual. When you use the power of the pen it will indicate to the receiver that you did what most people would not do. You went the extra mile, thought your message out, and put it to the pen. What goes out is your own heartfelt message that will make it so much more special to the person who receives it. This is a much needed book that will change how you communicate, and influence how people reciprocate. I highly recommend this new book by Rod W Gray!"
Craig Johnson
Associate Pastor
LAKEWOOD CHURCH
Founder of Champions Clubs
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"The pen isn't just mightier than the sword. The pen, guided by a human hand and led with a heartfelt intent, is mightier today than ever. In an increasingly automated, AI driven world, people are dying to hear from other people. And that makes the old school practice of handwritten notes the new secret weapon in building relationships. Read Rod's book. Soak up his thoughts. Then, do what your mother told you to do and start writing handwritten notes. It will change your relationships for Good."
William Vanderbloemen
Founder and CEO
Vanderbloemen Search Group"
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“In a world where our thumbs do most of the talking, INK by Rod Gray is a refreshing reminder of the heart behind handwritten words. This isn’t just a book—it’s a beautiful invitation to slow down and rediscover the power of putting pen to paper. From love notes to thank-you cards, Rod shows us how something as simple as ink on a page can build bridges, spark creativity, and strengthen relationships in ways that screens just can’t.
Whether you’re a journal junkie or someone who hasn’t touched a pen in years, this book will stir something in you. It’s practical, inspiring, and full of real stories that will make you smile—and maybe even grab a notebook. INK is a call to reconnect with the written word in a world that moves too fast. And I’m here for it!”
Martha Fry: Author of Moving Forward, Letting Go Of Stuff that will kill You
Marthafry.com
What Others Are Saying:
"If you are looking for a resource to help you be more
effective and productive I highly recommend INK by Rod
Gray. The old school is the new school when it comes to
communication. With all of our advanced technology we
can miss out on the relational connection with others.
There’s a well known phrase that says, “People don’t care
what you know unless they know you care.” I have
known Rod for many years and he lives what he teaches!
Get a few copies and share with your friends."
Pastor Matt Fry
Hopefront Church
Clayton, NC
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"I wholeheartedly endorse Rod Gray's compelling new book, INK: Discover the Power of the Pen in a Digital World.
In an era dominated by endless texts, emails, artificial intelligence, and social media noise, Rod brilliantly underscores the profound impact of handwritten correspondence. By reviving the lost art of writing letters, notes, and cards, he invites readers to slow down, step away from their screens, and reconnect with the people in their lives in a thoughtful and authentic way. This book serves as a powerful call to action, reminding us that the simple act of putting pen to paper can forge deeper connections and enrich both our lives and those of others.
Don’t miss the chance to rediscover the practice of handwritten correspondence."
Lindsey Lloyd
Vice President, Media and Production
WWE (World Wrestling Federation)
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"Rod Gray's book, INK: Discover the Power of the Pen in a Digital World, is a transformative read that brilliantly captures the timeless significance of written correspondence through letters, notes, and greeting cards. Rod masterfully explores how pen and paper remain vital tools for communication and human connection, even in our increasingly digital world of cell phones and computers. This insightful book is an essential guide for anyone seeking to harness the written word's profound impact—both personally and professionally to enhance relationships in their lives."
Jerry HardmanPresidentMobile Systems

Key Elements
Emotional and Psychological Impact
About the Book
The Enduring Power of Handwritten Communication
In an age dominated by electronic communication—from cell phones and laptops to tablets, endless emails, texts, social media posts, and AI—INK: Discover the Power of the Pen in a Digital World is a bold invitation to rediscover the lost art of handwritten connection.
From thank-you notes to life's memorable moments, Rod Gray demonstrates how a simple pen can spark deeper relationships in your personal and professional life, elevate your influence, and leave a lasting impression on family, friends, and business associates.
With practical tips, inspiring stories, and compelling questions, INK challenges you to slow down, pick up your pen, and make your handwritten words count.
You hold the power of the pen in your hand!

Building Relationships Through Handwritten Correspondence
The Power of Gratitude
"What if the secret to having authentic relationships fits in your hand?"
Rod Gray
Practical Application and Revival of the Habit
Meet The Author
Rod Gray
30 YEARS OF EXECUTIVE LEADERSHIP
Rod Gray is a seasoned professional with over 30 years of executive leadership experience in both corporate and nonprofit sectors. Throughout his award-winning career, he has exemplified servant leadership by prioritizing relationship-building and fostering meaningful connections in all aspects of his personal and professional life. Practicing gratitude and compassion daily, Rod uses the art of written correspondence to positively impact his own life and the lives of others.
In INK: Discover the Power of the Pen in a Digital World, Rod explores the profound impact of genuine, handwritten correspondence in our increasingly digital landscape. His insights emphasize the significance of authentic connections and the written word’s ability to bridge distances and strengthen relationships. Passionate about living out the values he promotes, Rod inspires others to embrace the joy of personal correspondence and experience its transformative power. When not writing or working, he enjoys quality time with family and friends and is an avid sports enthusiast. He resides in Cypress, Texas, with his wife of 30 years, Amie, and together they have two adult children, Owen Gray and Olivia Bradley, who inspire him daily.
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A Free Preview of INK's First 4 Chapters
Discover where it all began.
In Chapter One of INK, Rod Gray explores the fascinating history of written communication—from ancient cave paintings and proto-writing to the transformative power of handwritten letters throughout history. You'll uncover how early humans recorded their stories, how civilizations flourished through the written word, and why handwritten notes continue to carry emotional weight today. This chapter lays the foundation for understanding the timeless value of putting pen to paper in a digital world.In Chapter Two of INK, Rod Gray dives into how digital communication—though fast and convenient—has gradually eroded the depth and emotion once carried by the handwritten word. Through texts, emails, and likes, we’ve traded intention for efficiency, often at the cost of genuine connection. This chapter challenges readers to reflect on how technology shapes our words—and what gets lost in the process.
In Chapter Three of INK, Rod Gray reveals how handwritten letters, notes, and cards can build trust, deepen relationships, and spark emotional connection in ways digital messages simply can’t. Backed by research and moving real-life stories—from rekindled friendships to family traditions—this chapter shows how the pen can bridge distance, heal misunderstandings, and leave a lasting legacy. It’s a reminder that a few heartfelt words on paper can change everything.
In Chapter Four of INK, the transformative power of gratitude takes center stage as a vital practice for improving well-being and relationships. Through handwritten thank-you notes and letters, gratitude fosters connection, mindfulness, and a ripple effect of kindness that can uplift communities and individuals alike. Real-life stories and research highlight how expressing appreciation not only strengthens bonds but also builds resilience and positivity. This chapter reminds us that the simple act of saying “thank you” can create lasting change both inside and around us.


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Contact Rod Gray
281-627-9578
17703 Tower Bluff Ln.
Cypress, TX.
77433

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